HOW TO BE A GOOD AUDIENCE
“Movies are a fad. Audiences really want to see live actors on a stage.” -Charlie Chaplin
The art of seeing is the first step towards personality development. A good viewer observes without prejudice. A clear and unbiased vision is required for good observation. It does not necessarily mean healthy eyes. Objectivity and looking at things, people or events without interpreting decides the depth of your observation.
Most people view the world with pre-conceived notions. Learn to spot this tendency with in you and not in others. Shed the prejudices of your mind to evolve into a good viewer.
Have a keen eye for successful anchors if you wish to make a career in this field. Neither be critical nor impacted, just observe. You can grasp minute nuances from their performance, if you can watch them without glasses tinted with your thought process. Only a right vision towards the world around can result in personality improvement.
The circle of daily routine tends to program our mind to a limited vision. Many aspects of our life are overlooked in this process.
So, begin to observe people around you. Which of their traits you notice first? What aspects of their personality you find pleasing and which ones are repelling.
Conscience is the greatest master and circumstances of life are your greatest laboratory. Only continuous practice can make you perfect in the art of observation. Your personality begins to shine once you learn to become a detached observer. I believe nobody can teach anyone but everybody can learn everything. Whatever goes around you is imperative for your learning. Every scene that is being played out in the stage of your life is a valuable lesson, be it adverse circumstances, sour relationships or behaviour of people around you. The interminable chain of involuntary thoughts reduces our consciousness to superficiality. We confuse seeing with observing. You must have noticed how you are mentally somewhere else several times during a day. Develop a habit to concentrate your complete consciousness on the moment that is unfolding before you. Regular evaluation is necessary for every practice. You should also try to assess your habitude of observation consistently. It is a powerful exercise, which can improve your grasping power in days. The world becomes a motion picture that you watch without being a part of it.
Written By :- Praveen Tiwari,